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It's
so easy, as we race through each day trying to accomplish an
impossible number of tasks, to forget about those we love. Soon,
and often unintentionally, one partner, or both, are left feeling
unappreciated, overlooked and in need of some serious
"TLC."
Logically, we all know that a relationship must receive attention
if it is to grow. Realistically, few of us take the time to fan
the relationship flames as often as we should. But help is on the
way.
Showing your special someone how much you love them doesn't have
to take a lot of time or cost a lot of money. In fact, it's better
if it doesn't -- it's the little things that we remember most. So
don't wait until next Valentine's Day to show your significant
other that you love and appreciate them. Try to incorporate at
least one of these romantic ideas into your partner's day,
everyday (and when you've done them all, keep going by creating
your own, or repeat the cycle!)
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Cook
them their favorite meal. Have it ready to go when they walk
in the door, complete with candles.
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Leave
a note for your special other (or tuck one into a
lunch/briefcase) telling them how much you care.
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Try
your hand at a love poem that includes special memories only
the two of you share. Leave it somewhere unexpected.
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Make
your partner a CD of "your" songs. Have it playing
when they come home.
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If
married, have your wedding vows framed and give it to your
spouse "just because."
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On
a cold day, warm up their car for them.
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Volunteer
to do their share of the housework so they can relax.
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Let
them sleep in.
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Pamper
your significant other by running a bath for them. Include
bath salts, candles, and soft music, then wash their hair
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Give
your partner a massage (before they ask for it).
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Bring
them lunch at work.
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Stop
to say hello, kiss and hug every time you come in the front
door.
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Pack
a lunch and take your special someone on a surprise picnic or
walk in the woods. Or, pack a desert and go stargazing.
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Flirt
with them.
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Hold
his or her hand.
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Bring
them a blanket or sweater if they look cold.
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Tell
them you love and appreciate them, don't just assume they
know.
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Create
your own holiday, then surprise your significant other with a
celebration. This could be: "Happy 18 days since your
last cigarette," a 2.5-year anniversary, or "I Love
You More Than Ever Day."
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Leave
a flower and a note on the windshield of their car.
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Cuddle
for at least five minutes in the morning before getting out of
bed.
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Buy
them a small, but meaningful, gift such as their favorite
gourmet coffee, a pair of warm socks because their feet are
always cold, a book on tape for them to listen to while stuck
in traffic, etc.
Article
by Brian Vaszily
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