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Articles - Dating Tips: Creating The Perfect Atmosphere
Had you ever been
in the situation where your heart suddenly beats so fast, losing
your ability to think, having the sudden loss for words when
seeing someone you admired? At that very moment, you were like
frozen in time, lost into another world, a world so wonderful, so
heavenly? Hmm… How is my description? Ha whatever, the fact is
that at that very moment, you were totally defenseless. So
defenseless that anything could have just hit you. An arrow? An
arrow of love? Get what I mean?
Ok, let me share with you an experience of mine, a memory of my
college days. Those were the days when we would always hang out in
a big group, a group of both guys and girls, partying and having
fun together. There was this fine evening that we gathered at a
friend’s place for a little party, followed by some games of
Black Jack during the later evening. We were sited in one big
circle in this nice and cozy room. Sitting beside me was this
girl, a very beautiful girl I must admit. But well, it had never
cross my mind of a relationship further than that of a friend with
her. There just wasn’t any chemistry between us. Then came an
ace for me! Before I realize anything, this girl beside me
suddenly just came in so close on me. I know she was just been
excited and curious on whether I would get my Jack. But at this
very moment, her knee was on my lap, shoulder right in front of my
chest. We were suddenly just so close; I could feel the beautiful
fragrance from her soft silky hair. My heart was suddenly pounding
so fast, gasping for breath. I was totally at loss, for that very
moment, she got me! That chemistry, that frequency, which had
never happened between us suddenly just flowed through me so
relentlessly. Just imagine, if she were to give me a peck on my
cheek out of excitement if I got a Black Jack. Ha well, that of
course did not happen and neither did I get my jack.
Get the picture now? This is a very natural human psychological
reaction. When one is in the stage experiencing that sudden
increase in the heartbeat, undergoing a sudden feeling of
excitement, he tends to get confused, unknowingly developing that
feeling of liking for that someone beside him, especially when the
person is of the opposite sex. An opposite sex of, whom he does
not have any bad impression. Not to mention an opposite sex of
whom he has a good impression of?
Ha! I know what is on your mind now. But well, there is nothing
wrong, why not? Go create that perfect atmosphere; an atmosphere
that would make one’s heart beats faster. An atmosphere that
would make the sudden chemistry of love flowing between both of
you. A roller coaster ride? A haunted house adventure? Having a
good laugh together after the rides? A little nice chatting
session over the coffee table after a game of his favorite sports,
tennis? Singing her a love song with your guitar in front of
everyone?
Think about it, you plan yours. Take it slowly; build up that
chemistry of love between both of you. You are definitely on the
right track.
Rick Valens, Staff Writer for http://www.loveletterbox.com
Love Relationship Discussion Forum
Currently also freelance writer for http://www.ecemetery.org
Monument of Eternal Memory
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